This One's For the Ladies ;)

Hey there beautiful girls!  This post is a special edition post because I will not often be commenting on my love life or anyone's love life for that matter but, oddly enough, many of you are having issues in this department right now and I think we need to stop and reevaluate. haha  Right now, either you're confused on your relationship status, heartbroken, angry and/or bitter, or all of the above.  If you're all of the above its normal and you're not a crazy bitch like he says. You're just disappointed because what makes perfect sense to you is the most mind-boggling concept on earth to him lol.  You know that Tim Mcgraw song that says "You're more than a lover, there could never be another to make me feel the way you do. We just get closer I fall in love all over every time i look at you.  I don't know where I'd be without you here with me, life with you makes perfect sense..."  This, to us, is BRILLIANT! We're like "how does he know!?" It makes perfect sense to us that when you find someone who makes you feel like no one else can you just don't let them go because how you could you ever be happier than you are with him?  Let me tell you what a guy thinks when he listens to these words.  It goes something like: NEVER ANOTHER?! ONE PERSON FOREVER?! I GOTTA GET OUT OF HERE. IM NOT READY FOR THIS! hahaha 

    Now, this is no one's fault. You haven't done anything wrong. You didn't ask for a proposal, you didn't ask for the fairytale.  When I was little I don't recall seeing Prince Erik fart on Ariel or seeing the Beast make a crude joke in the presence of Belle in her beautiful golden ball gown. Contrary to popular male belief, we know our guys aren't perfect and we don't expect them to be, but we know they're perfect enough for us. We see the best in them and work with whats leftover haha.  However, from day 1, we see the gowns, the dance at the ball, the prince searching all over the land until he finds his princess, and he whisks her off her feet  and they live happily ever after.  We know this is unrealistic.  But theres still that teeny little hope that we could at least have the happily ever after eventually.  And don't get me wrong.  I think its more than possible to be happy with one person forever.  However, there is at the very least, one thing we surely do not have in common with our favorite Disney ladies:  We don't prance around forests in cute little dresses singing about how our life can finally get started when we meet the prince.  [And if you're doing that, stop it! You're making us look bad! ;) ] Our life is happening right now and when the "prince" makes his grand entrance, it will be his privilege to be a part of it and the fairytale will happen on its own.  

So this is my challenge for you.  Be the best version of yourself for YOU.  Do what makes YOU feel good.  We are nurturers.  We love to love.  It makes us feel good to take care of other people.  But sometimes we forget to take care of ourselves.  So I think we should begin an adventure now.  Go on a run, start a blog, read a new book, go out dancing.  Do whatever you want because someday, when you look back at today, you'll smile and say "damn, i was a tough sexy babe" rather than "dear god I was pathetic" haha.  And let me remind you, just because there isn't a prince charming telling you everyday that you are beautiful, doesn't mean you aren't.  You ladies are stunning.  You're the ones who make me proud to be a lady. So "keep calm and sparkle" because you deserve it. <3 

Infinite X's and O's, 

Dee